Love and Sex
Only for men: Gentlemen, Open your eyes!
The talent to seduce or to win a woman, whom not only that everybody wants, but she`s really worthy! It turns out that this is not a simple and easy job. If you are from the type who seek for whatever “trophy” only for one night, then this material will most probably not be interesting and of high value for you. But if you have decided to spend with this very woman more unforgettable nights, then the next tricks can work for you.
And so, let`s start with one of the most important things!
Women do not like men who are “feminized”
Women want the men to understand them, but to act with them like real men. Often the boundary smeared, when men think that they should act like maids in order to be in synch with the woman`s psychic. The fact that there all is upside down and not very clear is known to everybody, however their efforts will be properly awarded.
First friends and then mates
Do not be miss-leaded by the myth that you can first become friends and then to start wanting something more. In order to achieve luck, you need to clearly show your intentions from the very beginning. Because there is no guarantee that the girl in question will ever look at you as something different, than just a friend. A lot of men follow this logic, probably due to the fact that they are afraid of denial and refusal. So they think that if they become the emotional soul mate, then the victory is won. This approach however does not guarantee success!
Women like to be seduced
Imagine the following picture – a boy speaks to an attractive girl. She is laughing at his jokes, twists her hair behind her back and gently touches his shoulders as though she knows him for years now. However, you know that this is not so because you have come together with the young man who is enchanting her so successfully. On top of all he is not handsome at all. Plus, his charm is a little not visible. What could it be that he has that allows him to be brave enough to make a flirt attack and to impress so well one beautiful woman? He has something that the experts call “the critical factors for success”.
Confidence
Sense of humor
Self-control
These qualities combined together form a mighty style of communication that will help for impressing every woman. Plus, the good and very attractive outlook is really not obligatory at any price. You say to yourself that this is not true? But it is a fact that is based on the following statement of the psychologists.
Women cannot choose logically the men to whom they are attracted.
It sounds a little strange, but let me clarify it a little bit. It is a fact that far more easily they would be able to state whether a woman is charming and sexy, in comparison with the same estimate for a man. Therefore do not be surprised if you see a beautiful girl to act freely and flirty with a guy with far worse vision. Here we totally exclude the factor money, for which we can write a whole new article.
I may be repeated myself, but I think it is important to highlight it. Women do like to be seduced. But only from men who know how to do it. Therefore you can easily start with the following main rules.
Women do not like to be bothered and limited
You cannot just set some boundaries band rules in which you would expect to spend the conversation or the whole evening. If you do so, you risk causing Indian ravel and immediate teleportation to a safer place. The best distance is at a centimeter from the border – that way you will achieve both, she will not think you are applying pressure on her and second, she will not think that you are insincere. Tough, m? a 25-years old girl prefers to have fun. Very rarely a lady at this age thinks seriously about marriage and children. Therefore if you try to lock her away from the world, the only think you will achieve is that she will disappear immediately.
The woman will feel more attractive when the man challenges her with a good sense of humor
If the woman is a beauty, the best way to win her attention is to show her delicately that you are not stunned by her vision. You imply, without being pompous, there are plenty of women, who want you and you do not suffer from lack of attention. This will stimulate her respect. To put it with one word only, she wants you to be hard-attainable.
Why is it so? Since they have been very little, these women have achieved everything thanks to their vision. Their ego is huge due to the constant attention from their relatives, classmates and even girlfriends. The delicate reminder that you will not stay speechless in adoration in front of her can bring her back to the ground, interested exactly in you. Of course, be aware to do all this, without being rude. It is no doubt that the women are attracted from the male confidence, but not arrogance. If you really want to learn how to impress a woman, then observe her carefully. Do not listen to what she says she likes. Pay attention only to the behavior that she responds with desire.
The power of sex
Unfortunately the number of men who insist on sex very aggressively only hour or two after they have meet an attractive woman is very high. It would not be a lie if we claim that this has turned into main goal in many cases. Some specialists claim that this is as a result from the increasing freedom, independence and power of the ladies. If you also have such aggressiveness towards the whole process before getting to bed, then you need to find a way to deal with it. Otherwise you would not have success with women. This aggression is rooted in the belief that since the woman has the last word regarding whether there will be or there won`t be sex, then she more or less controls men. Will she give me some or she won`t? And the man is making efforts in this direction, without even knowing what he end result will be.
If you try to impress the girl with the clear goal to take her to bed, it is absolutely possible that your goal will become so obvious that you will receive a negative answer straightaway. Actually very proficient in the flirts men claim that: “you need to love women and even if you pre-taste your victory, you should not show in any way that”.
And do you know why there isn`t any risk that you will be told to go screw it. Because the girls who are worthy are absolutely aware how the society is observing the sexual success of men. A little bit of efforts and irresistible charm, but if the girl is not receptive, they just turn around in order to start looking for another, easier victim. To summarize it with one word, they look at sex as a game of luck. It does not hurt to plan and hold your destiny in your hands, instead of depending on somebody else`s dimes.
I would like to conclude this article with something like a saying.
If you continue doing what you have been doing, you will keep on receiving what you have received so far.
November 2008