ONLY FOR MEN: the women sexuality

There are a lot of aspects of the women sexuality that men do not know or more simply said – what a woman likes in bed and what she does not! However often time this is not due to a mistake of the so called “strong gender”, but because the ladies find it extremely hard to share what exactly they would like – whether out of shame or due to the fact that they do not know their own sexuality. More or less they are just hoping that their partner will guess what they like. And this is not fair – both towards us and towards them! It is clear that every woman is different. But there are some things that are 100% common and typical for above 90% of the gentle gender. This sounds like a good start.

Generally this is true. But there are some unchanging rules. Women tend to get aroused faster in this period. In the beginning you may feel like you are in a little lake. Therefore one shower in advance thanks to which part of this “lake” will vanish and you will also be able to have some nice feelings is a good idea. After all, let’s not underestimate the hygiene. The opposite problem also happens sometimes – dry like in the dessert. Especially if the woman uses a wad. In this case do not think that after you enter in her, everything will fall back into place and will be just perfect. There is a slight sensitivity and after all – pain that she may feel. The bonus of the sexual activities during monthly period is that the hormones are playing so wild in this time, that the woman gets very horny. Therefore understandably she is far more likely to make braver and more pervert things. Make up a scenario and follow it without an implication of vampirism and lectures for the time when Cleopatra used to bathe in human blood. You will spoil things.

Women do not like the endless sex

...Which lasts for half an hour, or even a whole hour. We strongly recommend you not to believe the statement that the longer you make love to her, the more masculine she will think you are. The real good lover knows when to stop and to gather the fruits of his efforts. The happy shine in our eyes when we lay in your arms is more than a proof that during the last 15 minutes you have done a great job. Always be aware that the woman needs a lover and not a sex robot. The latter ones are offered everywhere – made out of silicone and come in different shapes and sizes. Of course women like orgasms. But do not aim to give her 10 in a row. One, but quality, is absolutely enough.

Definitely true. In order to do something like that, you really need to know which fingers to use and how. The reason is very simple – the plenty nervous endings at the strategic spots. What’s the matter with that – you would ask – the more easily aroused areas, the better. But except the arousal, these spots also bear a very big sensitivity and in case you are not touching them in the right way, you can create and cause unpleasant and uncomfortable feeling. It is good if you are more or less acquainted with the geography of the G-spot. Seek for it very carefully, as though you are touching a wall, covered with naked wires, in order to find the turn-on key for the light. Once you find this G-spot, DO NOT press it with all the strength you have, content from your success, because instead of light in her eyes, you will see stars during a white day! Using more than one finger is not always a good idea. Arguments of the type: “from there you can give a birth of a whole baby” or “why it doesn’t hurt you when we have sex“are not suitable.

There are a lot of new things that women would like to try, but…often times they are ashamed to initiate them. Whether secretly they will dream of a group sex or using sadistic – masochistic attributes it does not matter. What matters is that they do not offer them only in order not to look bad in the eyes of their partner. This is where the role of the man comes. Very delicately as though you are walking on a thin ice, you need to investigate and find out your partner’s opinion on these matters. The reaction may be anything from a cheerful and loud “Yay” to a shy nodding with head - but this should be enough for you to know. From here to the list of ex adventures for you to try the next step is very, very little.

…which gives you a chance to start your day perfectly. Of course you do not have to shake us with the super direct offer: “baby, wake up and check what there is in the pants!”. The surprise of the unexpected penetration is also not acceptable. You may do it right in the middle of a dream with battle scenes. Gentle kisses, touches, hot breath on the neck and the belly. When we started speaking of breath, please be advised that in the morning it is not very fresh. You need to think of obligatory “trips” to the bathroom in the morning to beautify yourself before your session. However, if, fast like an arrow, you manage to take care of all of the above, you will have the pleasure to enjoy a great morning orgasm.

There are lots of different things that women like or dislike. There is no way to know them all after the first several nights you spend together, but remember one thing – the best sex have the couples that know how to share what they want.

And because we see the obvious interest to find out more about the women sexuality, here it is one quick bonus to your efforts. The hottest and usual sex fantasies that make women shiver – these are the role plays. Here main part plays one strong source of arousal that a lot of people neglect when it comes to sex: the brain.

Most often the role plays are connected to the sweet pleasure of the forbidden sex, the art of flirting, torturing and accepted violence, and surprising sex with unknown stranger, with the boss or with a representative of the police force, wearing a uniform. More on this topic – in the next issue

…to be continued…

October 2008