Love and Sex
The man in the role of the runaway bride
EVEN if we are pretty emancipated and open-minded, even if we wish a lot to pursue our career and to run wild and free, at a certain age, we, the modern women, start thinking more and more for marriage, family and kids. Whether it is a pure physiology or psychic mode of thinking or it is a combination of both, it is not absolutely clear – maybe every case is individual. However, sooner or later the alter is calling us…
The desire for a serious commitment in men, however, shows up comparatively late. Here lays the biggest mismatch between the two lovers. The conflict of interests is unavoidable. Scandals start one after another, accusations, grumpy moods. The woman sets an ultimatum, the man is afraid, the relationships enters in the phase of a deep crises. But, you are not giving up that easily… thinking of the so aroused situation, you search for the answers everywhere. You make up all kinds of ideas and means to make your beloved one offer you a marriage. You seek advice by everyone, read certain books, torture yourself and the key towards the happy final is still not in your hands. Which direction should you go to?
Here you can use the assistance of several tested in time tricks, which however do not guarantee you a 100% success. But it doesn’t`t hurt to try them!
Choose your winning tactic!
In order to impress him not only as a sexual object, but also as a valuable person, be natural and honest. Do not fake it, do not overact! However, it is not bad to sometimes use some little women smart trick, but with moderation and style! If the man you have chosen for yourself is intelligent enough, he will appreciate your honesty! Do not waste time!
Resist the temptation to have sex on the first date! It is absolutely wrong!
The sex is the taste of life – we all know this, but no matter how horny you are, how much you like the man you are with, do not place yourself right into his bed from the first date! If you want to create serious relations, do not do this – ever!
Attain and play the role of unavailable, mysterious woman, as by the same time you provoke his passion elegantly! Cunning, but effective! Be sure that you will drive him crazy!
Do not blindly follow your mothers advices!
Even if your mother is your best friend, do not allow her to intrude in your personal life. Of course, she is always lead by the best intends, but she is also still not used to the thought that her little girl is standing in front of her own new life and need to face it bravely! Therefore she is usually subjective. Do not accept her advices in this case!
Do not forget that your girlfriends are women after all!
If the friends from your childhood still have not found their prince charming, then for sure you need to keep them away from your beloved one! Even if they are happily married, there is still no guarantee that they will not knit some skilful intrigue which to darken your happiness. Do not take this risk!
Trust your intuition!
Most of all you need to do a recapitulation of the situation, measure all the advantages and disadvantages of your relationship, think of every detail. Do not be hasty neither in your words, not in your decisions. Listen to your inner voice!
October 2008