Love and Sex
4 sex secrets and … he will be yours
We continue the topic for the women sexuality and what good benefit it can bring to us and to men as well. Let`s suppose you have found the right person for you. You have achieved a great victory on the emotional field and now you would like to make thinks even perfect by being great in bed. Where is the big secret? It is not to “kill” him from sex marathons. The idea is to keep his interest. When it comes to keeping the interest, the way you will approach to sex, actually makes a difference. Therefore shed an eye on this rules, in order to make him come back for more. And before starting, please keep in mind that the weapons of the women sexuality are numerous, we only need to know how to use them.
Run away from the cock, but not too fast!
It is a good idea to play hard to get for a little bit, when we register a serious male interest. It is important not to show that we are actually playing. This is how we add up a little bit of emotion and mystery in the flirt, plus we ourselves do not look so easy. To put it simple, playing is helpful for everybody. But if we play this game too often and for too long, we will get bored even with your own game. There is no problem to keep at a distance, when we have not showed any desire for sex. But when we have already made eye contact and twisted hairs in a non-verbal promice, then it would be very rude to just turn and go away. We will also create a serious grumpiness. On the other hand, sometimes men are lazy and like the sure thinks. When you are always around and available, he will stop value you. Most men love to conquer; it is rooted in their nature. Therefore the medium, well measured turn down to his offer, despite the fact that you are wearing the sexiest lingerie, will make him want to see more and to invest more efforts. A score point for us!
– this is hard to achieve, especially if you are amongst the girls, who live under the motto “I do not play theater”. It becomes even harder, if you play, but you are a bad actress. On the other hand, men, who are used to such a behavior, may accept your natural hesitation “to have sex with him or not to have sex with him” exactly as such a theater.
Give him a hope, but do not make him feel sure!
This is something that is not longer a secret: men love to know that we have recapitulated and admit their leading role. In other words, that they are men and they control the situation. You need to make the man feel that he makes thinks right. It is important to play with the male ego and calm down the unavoidable insecurity, related to the size of the penis or to his durability during sex, or maybe to his ability to give an orgasm to his partner. If you are not entirely satisfied, do not criticize him directly. Very gently explain to him the thinks he will need to work on and award him for what he is doing properly. One banitza or any other tasty food on the next day and a happy smile will probably melt down, hopefully, the corrections you have wanted to make. If the man starts feeling constantly unsure whether he can or he can`t satisfy you, he will just go away, instead of start discussing these matters. The well said compliments now and then will make him have constant desire to satisfy you – instead of finding some other girl, who is less problematic.
– to ask him with widely open eyes and a mouth in the shape of the letter “O”: “Have you always had sex like that? How strange?!” Unfortunately any form of joke or humorous discussion by which to reach an agreement are almost always about to fail. In this area, if you put yourself at his place, you also would not be able bear such a bad attitude. The direct questions are also not good too. If you are an honest person, you are proud of this quality of yours and you would like the other people also to burst in tears of happiness from your great honesty… then go to buy a vibrator, because soon you are not gonna get any proper sex.
Promise less, give more!
Generally it is not a good idea to exaggerate when we are making promises for whatever. Because in such a way we enter the trap of high expectations and we will suffer hard through any loss. Especially, if we are not sure whether our great qualities, for example what goddess we are, when we are on top, will be valued properly. At any rate avoid setting false expectations. There is no man on earth who would gladly hear your boasting of how good you are in the French love, if you do not intend to prove it to him in practice. And what if you promise him to send him to the seventh sky and you do not succeed? Therefore you can use the following cunning trick. You may have a collection of medals and gold cups, appreciation letters from many men with which you have been, but the more you keep your mouth shut and do not boast, the bigger and nicer will be the surprise, when he is assured of your passionate nature.
– maybe one of the most unpleasant consequences, except the rest, is the fact that you will embarrass the man. His legs will tremble on the way to bed with such a master of “sport”, as you claim for yourself to be. So it is highly likely, if under the sheets he starts thinking only for his presentation and… he does not do anything, literally!
The key is the desire
Most women think that the key towards the great sex is the presentation. The acrobatic tricks and the various poses may bring you backbone issues. Naturally, nobody is declining the role of the good skills in bed, but not only they matter. When you demonstrate a sexual desire, you will make the man feel like a sex god. And if you manage to make him desire, he will desire exactly you. Therefore do not forget to show him how much you desire exactly him in all the various and original ways that you could think of and of course, that suit you. it probably wouldn`t be a good idea to stand naked in front of the windows of his office, but if you do your task well enough, this will drive him crazy and there will not be any meaning whether you are very experienced and whether you know some funny and kinky tricks in bed.
– more or less you can make one man want you. The question is how to start the ball rolling in such a way, that he wants more next time, and the time after next time and so on. Because if you put the level too high from the very beginning, you will need to maintain a sufficient tempo. Otherwise losing up as little bit, may be taken as a lack of desire, initiative or lack of love. Or just you have spoiled him already and he does not like it.
Do not put your sexuality in a frame, which you wipe from the dust from time to time. Use what the nature has gifted you with and the social circles as well, the knowledge from men and the communication with him. And also do not bother that you won`t be natural, if following some advices. Well, after all they said that “life is a big scene” and all those wise thoughts which if I start quoting, not only this material will become very boring, but I will go outside of the covers magazine.