THE Sex game – the best overture

To have sec is like playing bridge. If you are not having a good partner, then you rely on having good cards. Woody Allen

The sex – this exquisite pleasure, that is maintaining the liveliness in us and makes us feel desirable and satisfied! Often just the thought for the shimmering feeling that it brings, for the feeling of desire and delight, for the irreplaceable before and after the contact not only drives us crazy, but drives us totally crazy! J When the fantasy of at least just the one of the partners is constantly working in this direction, when we are trying to achieve variety and perfection in the sexual act, then the satisfaction and pleasure is guaranteed. It is very important however not to miss the interlude that can even make the passion rise to the maximum, makes every part of our body start shimmering and we dive in a crazy game from which there is no way either one of us to be a winner. I offer you to try!

In its popular meaning the term sex means not only a physical contact, but any intimate contact with the purpose of satisfying a sexual desire.

Of course, except as a mean of satisfaction, it is accepted and as a mean of reproduction. By after all, the first goal is the leading one.

In the past this part of the sexual life that we call today foreplay, has been regarded as a time in which the woman needs to be prepared for the penetration. This understanding has been deprived long ago and nowadays we regard this game in a different way, depending on the gender and the age. The younger women for example pay far less attention to the foreplay, then the older ones. Of course, there are moments when it is necessary that you feel and live through a quick and very impulsive sexual adventure that in certain cases is far more arousing. However, in most cases the sexy game before the actual sexual contact brings an incredible erotic energy. The arousal is increasing with every second, the feelings are more intense, and the anxiety is escalating with every moment. The hormones and fluids are in the air and the passion is overtaking you like a giant wave. The desire is irresistible.

The sexual game or the so called petting is a term known all over the world. The name originates from English and means I touch, pat, but more often is been translated as a love game, overture or generally speaking it means a stimulation of the erotic zones and a mutual giving of pleasure between both of the partners, but without a real sexual penetration. This type of satisfaction continues till both partners reach orgasm. Actually there is a thin line of difference between the petting and the love game. In the love game not always both of the lovers reach the culmination because its main purpose is to increase the passions and the bodies for the coming sexual penetration. In both cases the game is expressed by different actions, gestures and manners – starting with undressing each other, touching, cuddling, kisses, and games. The surrounding, the mood, the look, the expression, and the curves of the body, the voice, and the words – everything matters. And after all everybody choses by himself how to act. A good start is to tell your partner how much you desire him or her and how you tremble only by the thought that you have an opportunity to see in the most intimate parts of his mind and sexuality. Reveal to each other what you like and what you expect from this sexual contact. Look at him straight in the eyes, by slightly closing then and with gentle, but passionate voice whisper in his ear how much you are expecting from the moment in which he will be inside you. This will create a sexual explosion. And the so called dirty words, told during the interlude and the sexual act itself also play very important role. Use them without any hesitation!

The game before the intimate contact will be even more passionate if in advance we prepare the atmosphere and the surrounding in the place. Silent and gentle music reduced light, aromatic candles and warmed massage oil are only some of the many tricks that can be used in creating the right atmosphere. You can also read love stories with a spicy content, to play a porno movie, to include various sexual games, hand cuffs, masks, special laundry and making a video clip of yourself. The interlude is the most important moment for the couple to experiment with new things. And what`s even more important – eliminating all chances for dividing the attention or interrupting what you`ve already started. It is a good idea to turn off the phones and the TV. Leave yourself completely to the pleasure and the desire!

You open your eyes after the wild night, you look around and you remember every detail – probably you have had the nicest and naughtiest dream ever??! Gently and heavenly stretching yourself, you feel happy and satisfied. Overfilled with positive emotions and wild passions, you look at yourself in the mirror and you smile. The pleasure from last night sex is completely filling you with energy and delight and you start preparing for the new day with fresh strengths and you never know – it may bring even bigger surprises to you…

September 2008